Showing posts with label Sexy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sexy. Show all posts

Monday, February 23, 2009

Top 5 Dating Tips to Help You Date Sexy Women No Matter Your Looks, Age or Income by John Alanis

As the dating tips master who has helped millions of men date sexy women no matter their looks, age or income, I've heard all of the stories. I hear it over and over -- "It was going so great, and then she disappeared on me... why? What happened? We were having such a great time together. I'm tired of this happening. I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?"Every time a guy tells me this, I discover he's making the exact same dating mistakes that most guys do. These dating mistakes can kill your chances of successfully dating sexy women.Here Are My Top 5 Dating Tips to Help You Skyrocket Your Success with Sexy Women:
Dating tip #1: Don't date.Yes, you heard me right. I said don't date. Think about a traditional "date." It's full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a traditional date? Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, and then she doesn't return your calls. Trust me, it's much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee. It's fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.
Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she's attracted to you.Most guys try to impress sexy women. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she'll begin to wonder why you're not slobbering all over her. She'll want to discover more. Now you're a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys.
Dating tip #3: Be a gentleman but also be a "naughty little boy."
Remember the "class clown" in elementary school -- the guy who was cool and funny all at the same time? When you're talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments. Leave them thinking, "I can't believe he just said that... but I like it." This shows sexy women you're NOT impressed by their looks and you need to see more. And because this is so different from what they're used to, they can't help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.
Dating tip #4: Avoid all canned pick up lines or any type of acting.
Sexy women have heard it all before. As soon as you spout one, you're instantly what I call a JAG (just another guy). And JAG's don't get sexy women!
Dating tip #5: Look out for her tests.
Sexy women will test you to see if you'll stand up to them. If you can't stand up to her, you can't stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that's a test. It's also a perfect opportunity to be a naughty little boy as described in dating tip #3. Say something like, "What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!" Say this in a playful, yet firm manner that lets her know you're onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.
Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets you can put to use to grab a hold of the sexy woman of your dreams and never let her go. But if you pay attention to these dating tips, you'll be a whole lot more successful with sexy women. I guarantee it. So, go re-read all the dating tips again now and start having more fun on your dating adventures!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Who Has the Dating Power - Men or Women?

If you ever find yourself dating the kind of woman who believes she has sexual power over men and she suddenly finds herself in the 'one down' position in the relationship, she will usually try in all sorts of ways to sneak but up to the one-up position. Note: This means you are on the right track and she is enjoying herself. Don't stuff it up. Some examples of her trying to regain the one up position:- Playing mind games (e.g. not returning your calls or messages for hours or days even though you know she has nothing else to do, or is the type to respond to messages straight away).- Wearing flattering clothes and mentioning that other guys are checking her out.- Acting unimpressed with the things that you do (i.e. trying to get you to do more to impress her).- Creating situations where you rely on her (e.g. she's the designated driver for the night, but keeps you waiting by arriving late. You move in together and share rent, etc).- Making you fall in love with her and then becoming a little distant so you chase her even more.If you buckle under those sorts of tests, the woman will gain more and more of the 'silent dating power' and her attraction and interest in you may naturally diminish. Suddenly, you may find yourself behaving like she had been previously (i.e. trying to get yourself back to the 'one up' position). You might find yourself trying harder to impress her, to spark certain feelings or to get her attention. However, you must hold your ground. At a deep level, she will appreciate it if you can keep her interested by not falling for her instinctive attempts to test your masculinity.Better yet, don't even play with her tantrum. For example: A woman is throwing a little tantrum because you didn't call her the night before.Her: (In an angry, paranoid tone) Why didn't you call me last night?You: (Chuckling) Hehe...you're cute. Hey, I've gotta tell you something... I just made the best stir-fry ever...if you're nice I'll save you some. Her: Cool, but hey... why didn't you call me?You: C'mon, don't be silly. How was your day today? Tell me about something good that happened...If you do find yourself in the one-down position in terms of the dating power, you may also find yourself wanting to give a woman more compliments. So, here's some tips on that topic. A genuine compliment is something that we rarely forget. A compliment out of supplication is something we often ignore as meaningless, or even resent.Man: Wow, you are so beautiful.Woman: Thanks, you're so sweet.That may look like a positive interaction to some of you, but in reality it equals nothing if the woman doesn't feel attraction for you, or if you're trying to suck up to her. You can compliment a woman on anything you like, but make sure that she is attracted to you first. Here are some great examples of how to compliment a woman:You: Hey, I like your dress sense.Her: (Says something).You: Yeah, it's stylish (trendy/cool/funky or whatever else you want to say)....I like girls who dress like that...You: Hey, you have nice teeth.Her: (Says something).You: I like nice teeth...You: I think you're really sexyHer: (Usually flattered and can't believe you had the balls to say it.)Complimenting too early: Do the right thing by her and don't be another guy who comes along babbling out compliment after compliment, or demonstrates that he will offer no challenge.The best time to give a woman a compliment: Feel free to reward good behavior with a compliment when a woman says something witty, does something nice for you, etc. Despite what women may say, they generally prefer a man who will make them work for it. For example: You've been talking to a woman for a little while. She is being really friendly, flirty and responsive and says something funny. Start laughing quietly to yourself and have a private little moment.Her: What?You: I just noticed something about you.Her: What?You: You're actually quite funny (or cute, or whatever you want to say about her). I like that.But remember that you can't get too predictable with women, or they'll lose interest. Sometimes, you should playfully tease a woman for doing nice things or saying something cool. Sometimes you should compliment her.


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Thursday, January 15, 2009

4 things to make a woman date a poor man.

There are 4 things a man should have that would make women to run after him without necessarily being rich.These four qualities are being looked for in a man by women.They are completely different from any other of the obvious attraction factors like money and looks.

These qualities are :
1.Confidence: This is always the ability to tell that woman what you want and how you want it.It ranges from confidence in demanding for sex and be straight to the point in all issues.The woman wants and respect the man who understands her body.

2.Charisma: A man should be charismatic in all things, being able to make fun, jokes, make the woman laugh when she is angry, and know exactly how to handle situations of all kinds.The man should create time for social activities as well. He should be able to act and make fun. These are what makes a man sexy!

3.Character - The man should have the quality that will warrant you to bring him home to your parents.

4. The man should be strong and healthy: He should be able to satisfy the woman sexually.

With perfection in all these qualities,the woman will always be ready to spend for the man. He will always bear what ever condition comes.