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Tuesday, March 24, 2009
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Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Getting Over Being Dumped: Tips for Coping with the End of a Relationship
From time to time, relationships go badly wrong. Most of us have been abandoned by a partner at some stage ion life. If not then you are very lucky. It is easier to leave someone than be dumped yourself but if you have been left, then you need to take your time and have a period of mourning before dating again. If a major relationship has ended it will take some time to recover and anyone who suggests you just bounce back is a fool as they are not in touch with the reality of the situation.
Do rely on good friends and do find time for yourself but ultimately it is time that will sort things out for you. Distance from the event and plenty of thinking and pondering will help put things in perspective but I will say that it is generally the case that that particular relationship didn't work out because there are far better things in store for you. If that relationship didn't end, how would you ever go on to meet Mr. or Miss Right?
Accept what has happened and do not try to win your ex back
Never go back to someone once they have left you, it won't work
Take some time out from socializing to get to grips with what has happened
Make time for yourself to do some thinking
Never allow your ex to suggest you will both be good friends
Don't get in touch with, or try and see your ex to sort things out as you are fooling yourself. Once someone has taken such a major step it is usually for good
Remove anything in your apartment that reminds you of them. Have a spring clean
Do not allow your ex back into your house, it's over
If you had shared friends, it will be a difficult period. Be prepared that some people will fall by the way side
Do rely on your best friends for comfort and they should allow you to talk as much as you need.
As soon as you can, come to terms with the loss and realize that you are not going to be single again forever. That will not happen
Do everything you can to rebuild your self confidence and demonstrate to yourself what your ex lost
Never blame yourself. If someone left you it was purely their decision. If they couldn't communicate with you prior to the event it was their own failing
If your ex was unfaithful if has nothing to do with your own bedroom prowess. More their lack of self-respect
Though it is a powerful mood, do not harbor grudges and desire revenge too much. Hurting someone brings you down to their level. The best revenge is in bouncing back and demonstrating how much they actually lost
Learn from the failed relationship, not only about yourself but about what you will never accept again in future dating needs
Lose the photographs. There is no comfort to be found there
Do allow yourself to be angry for a short time. In doing so you will feel empowered to move on
Being rejected hurts so don't allow anyone to tell you otherwise
When you are ready do start socializing again even if dating is some way off
Don't start a new relationship on the rebound, it is highly likely to fail and you will hurt the new person too
Hold your head up high and think only of positive things where possible
Sometimes it is necessary to move location or job to recover. If this is the case, it will herald a fresh start
Don't email/phone your ex or look for reasons because you will often be lied too. They will try and spare your feelings (laughably) by avoiding what they really think
Take a vacation if you can and get a wider sense of perspective. This includes meeting new people and making new friends
Don't go to your old haunts secretly hoping to run into your ex. That is a recipe for disaster and will prolong the healing process
Eventually, do treat yourself and buy new clothes and even change your image slightly to get a fresh feel for things. A new haircut can do wonders and instill a new sense of confidence
Be patient and take your time with anything. Ultimately in the years that follow you will feel strong and confident and will go on to have a beautiful relationship. Just thank your lucky stars it wasn't with the fool who just walked out the door
Never make rash decisions in the days after being dumped. This is not the time for clarity of judgment. Your friends will help you.
Source: http://www.topdatingtips.com/dumped-tips.htm
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Friday, March 13, 2009
How Hot Women Test Men They Date and Why - Part 3 by David Deangelo
I treat women very well... they always tell me that they've never met a man who treats them so well, etc.
How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster?
Well, it's simple really... I do nice things for them ON MY OWN TERMS. I will surprise them with a thoughtful e-mail or a card... or I might give them a nice massage... I open doors and walk on the outside of the curb... But part of most women's romantic fantasy (in my opinion) is the man taking control of the situation and doing things on HIS terms. Try it for yourself... next time you're going to meet a woman, tell her what to wear... choose the food and tell her to trust you... if she asks for a kiss, say, “No"... but kiss her later when YOU feel like it... if you know that she likes chocolate, and she asks for some... don't give it to her... but surprise her with some next time you see her... get it?
Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I use:
1. Never give a woman a direct answer... unless the answer is NO. This is a big one. If she says, “Can we sit here?" I say, “No, let's sit in this one next to it." or if she says, “How do you like my dress?" I say, “Well, I think that I like it... just give me a few minutes to see it on you."... or if she says, “Call me tomorrow." I say, “No. You call me tomorrow... cummon, you want me and you know it." Get it?
2. If she complains about you or doesn't like something, turn it up a notch and do it more. If she says to me, “I don't really like it when you say that.", I say, “Well then you might want to leave, because I say it a lot." Get it?
3. Women are CONSTANTLY testing to see if they can get you to comply with them. As soon as you do, they hit the road (or marry you). This idea took me years to see and understand, but the fact is that when you're dealing with a powerful, hot woman she will do all different kinds of things that make no sense at all logically... but all the sense in the world when you understand her mindset.
Hot women can have anything they want. What they want is a challenge... something that keeps their interest. If a woman can have anything she wants anytime she wants it, then Why the hell do guys think that they're going to be interesting by doing the same thing that every other guy has done? Duh.
4. Hey, I used to think this way... but then I got a clue. Now, I pay very careful attention and never let her have what she wants. If she says, “Kiss me." I say, “No." If she says, “Come over to my house." I say, “I'm busy right now, I'll come over later." If she says, “I want you so bad, please make love to me." I say, “Well, I think that you need to wait a little longer. And besides, I'm not finished kissing you." Get it? I NEVER give a woman exactly what she asks for... EVER!
Always send mixed signals. Tell her I want to be friends and kiss her. Tell her what she just did was unacceptable and then go kiss her. Spank her if she does something nice. Also, respond differently to the same thing. For example, one time if she comes over and sits on my lap, I kiss her. Another time I push her off... get it? Never be predictable... NEVER.
For the record, when I say, “always" and “never", I don't really mean “ALWAYS 100% WITHOUT EXCEPTION EVER." I mean that you should do these as much as you possibly can, because you really can't overdo any of them as long as you stay cocky and funny while you're doing them.
The test is always, “Is she laughing, smiling, having fun most of the time?" If so, you can't overdo these four rules.
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Wednesday, March 4, 2009
How Hot Women Test Men They Date and Why - Part 2 by David_DeAngelo
Most of the time, I’m enjoying myself, talking about whatever comes up, making jokes, and generally behaving like a normal person. But, like anything else, if these techniques are used too much, they become worthless… so they must be used with precision and at the right moments. What’s interesting is that because I usually (but not always) do these teasing and seemingly controlling things with a bit of a dry humor spin, I believe that the woman who I’m with has an internal response like, “Wow, this guy is cocky, but I can’t tell if he’s serious or not… and I want to find out… but either way, he’s funny and he’s staying interested in me and not being flagrantly abusive… so he must be interested at SOME level…” The key is to WATCH FOR THE TESTS and be ready when they come. Most guys screw up when a woman acts bratty… or when a woman gets upset, they say, “Oh, I’m sorry” and mess it up. Or they act nervous, etc. You have to stay in control… If a woman starts getting angry, instead of getting nervous say, “Oh, poor baby is throwing a tantrum… So what. You’ve been doing the same thing since you were 2, and you didn’t get your way.” SPANK! Another realization I’ve had is that most women are totally intrigued by men who seem uninterested and crass… it’s almost like they say to themselves, “Wow, this guy seems kind of cocky… and I can’t believe that he’s not interested in having sex with me like all the other dumb pussies that I meet… He’s funny and smart… I wonder if I can get him interested in me… and when I do, I’ll just dump him like the other losers… but this might be fun…” Get it? But if you are going to act this way, you have to keep it up until the end… and I mean to the end. I’m going to address the ‘treating women well’ issue again on my next post.
Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-hot-women-test-men-they-date-and-why-part-2-451749.html
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Monday, March 2, 2009
How Hot Women Test Men They Date and Why - Part 1 by David_DeAngelo
In my opinion, most women, especially the ‘hotties’, have gone through a learning curve here in our western culture that has on average given them a sort of ‘predictable psychological makeup’. Now, there are differences between these women… some are smart, some are not… some are tall, some are short… some are cerebral, some are physical… etc. etc. etc… but there are things that most of them have in common. I’ve made a study of these things… because this is what interests me.
At some point in their lives, hotties began to be treated differently because they were attractive. I mentioned the social psychology concept earlier called ‘The Halo Effect’. Simply stated, attractive people are assumed to be smarter, more honest, more trustworthy, etc. than others. The fact that people do whatever the hottie wants begins to blur their sense of reality and makes them believe that they can have whatever they want whenever they want it… AND THAT’S JUST THE WAY LIFE IS. (This applies in general.)
You’ll notice that many super-hotties will throw tantrums if they don’t like what’s going on or aren’t getting their way… this is a sure sign that they are not living in the same reality as most people… when they don’t get what they want, they get upset because this has worked since they were little…
Now, on a subconscious level, I’ve noticed that most hot women realize that they are being ridiculous when they act like bitches, throw tantrums, etc. but it doesn’t really matter because it still WORKS for them when they want what they want… are you with me?
Underneath all of this behavior, they are still FEMALE and they are looking for what other females are also looking for…
What are women looking for?
Well, for the record, I have no idea. After 30 years of studying people, Freud said that there was one question that he didn’t have the answer to… “What do women want?” Nice.
BUT, here’s my take on it: First and foremost, they want a man who is in CONTROL (of the situation, himself, his emotions, other people, her… control of the entire reality that they share).
Let me ask you, if you were a woman who wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in control, how would you do it? Would you ask the man, “If I get out of hand, will you spank me and put me in my place?”
NO WAY!!!
So they test us by CHALLENGING us to see if we’ll stay in control. The reason I do all of this “Never give a woman a direct answer… unless it’s NO… Never give a woman exactly what she wants…” etc. is, ironically, to give her what she REALLY wants… a man who’s in control. Women want a challenge. Think romance novel themes… if you don’t know what I’m talking about, sit yourself down for a week and read Dangerous Men and Adventurous Women by Jayne Krentz… How to Succeed With Women By Being A Jerk by F.J. Shark… Endless Rapture by Helen Hazen… and Bad Boys by Margie Palatini… and think about it.
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Source: http://www.articlealley.com/article_563248_35.html
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Monday, February 23, 2009
Top 5 Dating Tips to Help You Date Sexy Women No Matter Your Looks, Age or Income by John Alanis
As the dating tips master who has helped millions of men date sexy women no matter their looks, age or income, I've heard all of the stories. I hear it over and over -- "It was going so great, and then she disappeared on me... why? What happened? We were having such a great time together. I'm tired of this happening. I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?"Every time a guy tells me this, I discover he's making the exact same dating mistakes that most guys do. These dating mistakes can kill your chances of successfully dating sexy women.Here Are My Top 5 Dating Tips to Help You Skyrocket Your Success with Sexy Women:
Dating tip #1: Don't date.Yes, you heard me right. I said don't date. Think about a traditional "date." It's full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a traditional date? Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, and then she doesn't return your calls. Trust me, it's much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee. It's fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations.
Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she's attracted to you.Most guys try to impress sexy women. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she'll begin to wonder why you're not slobbering all over her. She'll want to discover more. Now you're a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys.
Dating tip #3: Be a gentleman but also be a "naughty little boy."
Remember the "class clown" in elementary school -- the guy who was cool and funny all at the same time? When you're talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments. Leave them thinking, "I can't believe he just said that... but I like it." This shows sexy women you're NOT impressed by their looks and you need to see more. And because this is so different from what they're used to, they can't help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.
Dating tip #4: Avoid all canned pick up lines or any type of acting.
Sexy women have heard it all before. As soon as you spout one, you're instantly what I call a JAG (just another guy). And JAG's don't get sexy women!
Dating tip #5: Look out for her tests.
Sexy women will test you to see if you'll stand up to them. If you can't stand up to her, you can't stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that's a test. It's also a perfect opportunity to be a naughty little boy as described in dating tip #3. Say something like, "What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!" Say this in a playful, yet firm manner that lets her know you're onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire.
Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets you can put to use to grab a hold of the sexy woman of your dreams and never let her go. But if you pay attention to these dating tips, you'll be a whole lot more successful with sexy women. I guarantee it. So, go re-read all the dating tips again now and start having more fun on your dating adventures!
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