Showing posts with label men. Show all posts
Showing posts with label men. Show all posts

Monday, March 2, 2009

How Hot Women Test Men They Date and Why - Part 1 by David_DeAngelo

In my opinion, most women, especially the ‘hotties’, have gone through a learning curve here in our western culture that has on average given them a sort of ‘predictable psychological makeup’. Now, there are differences between these women… some are smart, some are not… some are tall, some are short… some are cerebral, some are physical… etc. etc. etc… but there are things that most of them have in common. I’ve made a study of these things… because this is what interests me.
At some point in their lives, hotties began to be treated differently because they were attractive. I mentioned the social psychology concept earlier called ‘The Halo Effect’. Simply stated, attractive people are assumed to be smarter, more honest, more trustworthy, etc. than others. The fact that people do whatever the hottie wants begins to blur their sense of reality and makes them believe that they can have whatever they want whenever they want it… AND THAT’S JUST THE WAY LIFE IS. (This applies in general.)
You’ll notice that many super-hotties will throw tantrums if they don’t like what’s going on or aren’t getting their way… this is a sure sign that they are not living in the same reality as most people… when they don’t get what they want, they get upset because this has worked since they were little…
Now, on a subconscious level, I’ve noticed that most hot women realize that they are being ridiculous when they act like bitches, throw tantrums, etc. but it doesn’t really matter because it still WORKS for them when they want what they want… are you with me?
Underneath all of this behavior, they are still FEMALE and they are looking for what other females are also looking for…
What are women looking for?
Well, for the record, I have no idea. After 30 years of studying people, Freud said that there was one question that he didn’t have the answer to… “What do women want?” Nice.
BUT, here’s my take on it: First and foremost, they want a man who is in CONTROL (of the situation, himself, his emotions, other people, her… control of the entire reality that they share).
Let me ask you, if you were a woman who wanted to test a man to see if he will stay in control, how would you do it? Would you ask the man, “If I get out of hand, will you spank me and put me in my place?”
NO WAY!!!
So they test us by CHALLENGING us to see if we’ll stay in control. The reason I do all of this “Never give a woman a direct answer… unless it’s NO… Never give a woman exactly what she wants…” etc. is, ironically, to give her what she REALLY wants… a man who’s in control. Women want a challenge. Think romance novel themes… if you don’t know what I’m talking about, sit yourself down for a week and read Dangerous Men and Adventurous Women by Jayne Krentz… How to Succeed With Women By Being A Jerk by F.J. Shark… Endless Rapture by Helen Hazen… and Bad Boys by Margie Palatini… and think about it.
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Monday, February 16, 2009

Chatting up Girls - Teach yourself How To Become A Man Of Mystery


The science of seduction is an area of life which put most men to great challenges, even the most experienced of guys, especially when it comes to the very initial time. This is why most men surf the internet for the easiest ways to chat up and seduce hot girls into going on a date with them. Below are some of the rules which determine success or failure with seduction method.

If you plan to chat up girls without rejection then you need to belief in yourself with confidence, and maintain that you have what it takes to seduce beautiful girls. The fact is beautiful, sexy women are attracted to men of courage regardless of looks. So if you aren't confident enough, this is a skill you can learn and get used to.

The kind of cloth you wear and how you present yourself is very important. You must look nice and seductive. Failure to be well presented will see you falling at the first hurdle. They'll completely avoid you, and move on to more handsome looking men who have taken the time to keep their looks.

Chat up girls by making direct eye contact tol establish far greater sincerity. Make use of your eyes to almost hypnotise the hot woman in front of you. Look deeply into her eyes and confidently praise how amazing she looks.

As you chat up girls, mention their stunning clothes, or whatever else strikes you, as a sincere and honest compliment at that time. Be positive and sincere to cast a positive first impression on any hot girl, and she'll find herself desperate and willing to date you.

The formular, however is FUN - Having fun is what makes flirting exciting. So if you are dating sexy women but you aren't having fun doing it, it's not really flirting. chatting up girls successfully, treat your flirting as though you're like Salvador of second Chance - where relationships are about fun, games, excitement and mystery. The goal is to make the girl want you not the other way round.

It is realy safe to say, these tips will help you become the centre of attraction for all of the sexy girls and hot women any time you approach them.

The key to any pick up is based on you initiating the conversation and to find out how click here