Friday, March 13, 2009

How Hot Women Test Men They Date and Why - Part 3 by David Deangelo

I treat women very well... they always tell me that they've never met a man who treats them so well, etc.

How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster?

Well, it's simple really... I do nice things for them ON MY OWN TERMS. I will surprise them with a thoughtful e-mail or a card... or I might give them a nice massage... I open doors and walk on the outside of the curb... But part of most women's romantic fantasy (in my opinion) is the man taking control of the situation and doing things on HIS terms. Try it for yourself... next time you're going to meet a woman, tell her what to wear... choose the food and tell her to trust you... if she asks for a kiss, say, “No"... but kiss her later when YOU feel like it... if you know that she likes chocolate, and she asks for some... don't give it to her... but surprise her with some next time you see her... get it?

Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I use:

1. Never give a woman a direct answer... unless the answer is NO. This is a big one. If she says, “Can we sit here?" I say, “No, let's sit in this one next to it." or if she says, “How do you like my dress?" I say, “Well, I think that I like it... just give me a few minutes to see it on you."... or if she says, “Call me tomorrow." I say, “No. You call me tomorrow... cummon, you want me and you know it." Get it?

2. If she complains about you or doesn't like something, turn it up a notch and do it more. If she says to me, “I don't really like it when you say that.", I say, “Well then you might want to leave, because I say it a lot." Get it?

3. Women are CONSTANTLY testing to see if they can get you to comply with them. As soon as you do, they hit the road (or marry you). This idea took me years to see and understand, but the fact is that when you're dealing with a powerful, hot woman she will do all different kinds of things that make no sense at all logically... but all the sense in the world when you understand her mindset.

Hot women can have anything they want. What they want is a challenge... something that keeps their interest. If a woman can have anything she wants anytime she wants it, then Why the hell do guys think that they're going to be interesting by doing the same thing that every other guy has done? Duh.

4. Hey, I used to think this way... but then I got a clue. Now, I pay very careful attention and never let her have what she wants. If she says, “Kiss me." I say, “No." If she says, “Come over to my house." I say, “I'm busy right now, I'll come over later." If she says, “I want you so bad, please make love to me." I say, “Well, I think that you need to wait a little longer. And besides, I'm not finished kissing you." Get it? I NEVER give a woman exactly what she asks for... EVER!

Always send mixed signals. Tell her I want to be friends and kiss her. Tell her what she just did was unacceptable and then go kiss her. Spank her if she does something nice. Also, respond differently to the same thing. For example, one time if she comes over and sits on my lap, I kiss her. Another time I push her off... get it? Never be predictable... NEVER.

For the record, when I say, “always" and “never", I don't really mean “ALWAYS 100% WITHOUT EXCEPTION EVER." I mean that you should do these as much as you possibly can, because you really can't overdo any of them as long as you stay cocky and funny while you're doing them.

The test is always, “Is she laughing, smiling, having fun most of the time?" If so, you can't overdo these four rules.

About The Author:
Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.